Have you heard the most recent Maroon 5 song, “Daylight”? It’s a song about hanging on for one more night before finally admitting a relationship is over. What I have with Pop Parables has long been over, but now we’re finally laying it to rest and moving forward. Before we have our final kiss, we’re gonna revel in the good things about us in a few more posts.

Since July, my bloggy mojo has been resuscitated by my creative pursuits at Bringing Crafty Back. I’ve been making things like this:

 

and, this is what I’m most proud of:

I’ve also been dabbling in poetry:

 {click the images above to be magically transported to these posts}

While being creative has fulfilled me in a way than Pop Parables never did, I have missed wrestling with my faith through the written word. I have also found myself craving the sharpening of my friends in the blogosphere. So, I’m developing a brand new bloggy project that will be a spin off of Pop Parables. It will be a broader and more varied approach to life and faith. I really hope you’ll join me there come 2013. For now, you can continue to follow me here on Pop Parables or on my Pop Parables Facebook Page, as I’ll be sure to provide all the details there first.

Next week, I’ll have some brand new Pop Parables to share with you. Ya’ll come back now, ya hear?

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What have you been up to lately?  Leave me a link to your best post that I’ve missed!

 

We all have irrational thoughts from time to time.  One such thought of mine is, “Lemme me just look at this blog for a quick sec.”  A “quick sec” inevitably turns into an extended foray into a particular blog nice.  Most recently, I’ve been stewarding many of the cracks in my day to the black hole of home design blogs.  Some of my favs include Young House Love, Design Sponge, Simple Design, and Apartment Therapy.

Last week, Apartment Therapy ran a post entitled The Ultimate in Upcylcing: Homes in Converted Churches.  {A quick glance through the comments reveals that many readers did not like how the term “upcylcing” was applied in this context, perhaps repurposed would have been a better choice.}  Be sure to click over to the post to see some amazing images of converted church spaces.

There is a new trend in the design world whereby buildings formerly used as houses of worship are being transformed into single family dwellings.  They suit the modern home owner, who covets open spaces, a sense of grandeur, and an homage to the vintage, repuprosed, eco-friendly lifestyle.

 I was particularly fond of this one in the city of Utrecht, the Netherlands.

This trend could easily be turned into a variety of pop parables.   But, the one I chose is something I’ve been chewing on for quite some time.

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A church as a home?  For many believers, church IS home.

In fact, we even refer to our churches as “homes”.

I’ve often found myself asing a new acquaintance, Do you have a home church?

Home.

The  very word conjures up feelings of warmth.

It’s inviting, like freshly baked chocolate chip cookies from Grandma’s kitchen.  A place you want to curl up and get cozy, maybe share a cup of coffee with a friend.

The idea of a church as a home is a very nice notion.

But, is this what church is supposed to be?

Most church buildings today are multi functioning.  Some churches even have a sanctuary that doubles as a gymnasium or auditorium.  A church is no longer simply a place of worship, but a gathering place for a variety of purposes.

The downside of this is that one could easily find themselves at church every night of the week,  completely wound up in “ministry commitments”, taking classes or just hanging out with others from the congregation, being a “homebody”.

Those things sound nice to me, very comfy and homey.   I get to hang out with people who pretty much see eye to eye with me on the things I value most.  I’m surrounded by those whose  lives very closely resemble mine.  I don’t have to get “uncomfortable”.

But, again, is this what church is supposed to be?

The purpose of this post is not to fully explore the exact purpose of “the church”.  There are various theological and doctrinal ramifications to that discussion that I’m not fully educated or even inclined to discuss.  However, the purpose of the church that I keep coming back to is very simply summed up by Jesus Himself in the Great Commission.

All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth.  Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of this age. {Matthew 28:18-20}

Doesn’t sound like you can stay “home” and do that now does it?

Doesn’t sound like spending 4-5 nights a week at church now does it?

Doesn’t sound like putting on your favorite sweats and getting cozy on the couch now does it?

The picture that I get of the church in context of the Great Commission is what is known in the military as a Forward Operating Site {FOS}

An FOS is defined as a scalable, ‘warm’ facility that can support sustained operations, but with only a small permanent presence of support or contractor personnel.

This is different from a Main Operating Base {MOB} that is much like a self-sustaining, small city, offering most of the comforts of home, community, and convenience.

The FOS is meant to support the larger mission and the operation of the armed forces.  It’s a place of sending out and going forth.

If the church operated as an FOS, it wouldn’t be a home.

We would only return to be better equipped to sustain the mission of the Great Commission.

And, we wouldn’t spend the majority of our time at church, because we would be out in the field making disciples and fulfilling the mission.

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Would you want to live in a home that was once a church?  Which room would you choose for your bedroom?

Do you think of your church as “home”?

What are some good things about considering a church a “home”?

 

Two weeks ago, I began Project: Simplify in my own home.  Jim wrote an intriguing comment on that post in which he shared his own experience of the simplification process.  I asked him to share more in a guest post, because, bottom line, I really like Jim.  Every time I read one of his comments on Pop Parables or any other blog, I gain wisdom and insight on the topic.  I hope you’ll gain some perspective on your own life after reading about Jim’s experience.

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Read the title again – it is not The Simple Life starring Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie but The Simpler Life starring me and my family.

It all started a little over three years ago. I was called into the Senior Pastor’s office for my normal Friday meeting with him. We had not been doing it very regularly but he made a point the day before to make sure I would be in there for this one. I go into his office and notice that he looks stressed. He asks me a few surface questions and then hits me with “You have six months to find another job”. I was stunned and really heard very little of what he said after that point. By all accounts, I had done all that was asked and more in my position at the church.

I had been at this church that was in an affluent suburb of a big northeastern city for nearly 8 years. To make matters worse we bought our first home just 11 month before. It was not a huge house but at nice 1600 square foot home in a development. We had a couple of nice vehicles and a good amount of stuff. Let me be brutally honest – we were “keeping up with Jones” with all the stuff we were compiling but did not realize that we were losing ourselves spiritually in the mix of stuff and losing God.

We were now going to have to live the simpler life. I thought that meant just getting rid of some of the stuff but it actually turned out to be a whole lot more.

In my calling as a pastor I spoke about God a lot but in reality He was forgotten because I was so busy doing stuff for Him. God was forgotten in the pursuit of stuff. It was not all bad stuff but it was cluttering up life and I was losing God in it all. Spiritual stuff began to clutter up my life to the point that God was forgotten.

When I was put in the position that my job was going away – I realized how much I complicated and cluttered my life up with physical stuff and spiritual stuff that was not needed at all. I clearly saw that God was just a part of my life and not the center of it – something I had preached and taught against. I did not see it at the time but hindsight made it clear. God needs to touch every aspect of our lives and when He does I believe He will help keep it clear of the clutter. When He is just a slice of life and not the center life gets cluttered with stuff that does not need to be there. A solid relationship with Christ clears the clutter and helps you to see stuff for what it is – just stuff.

After only five months of being told I had six months to find a job God provided a position as a senior pastor in a small church in southeastern Virginia. It is rural and there are only 400 people live in the village. Life moves as a slower pace here – at least it does for me and my family. We are not always running here or there – there really is nowhere to go. I do not have endless meetings. I refuse to allow the desire to keep up with anybody creep in again because I see how destructive it has been. I just want to stay connected with God, my wife, my kids, my family, and church. I do not want to worry about what stuff I have or what stuff I do not have.

The simpler life was not a choice I made willingly but one that I am glad now was forced on me and my family. I do not believe you have to be forced in to the simpler life but it is a choice you can make right where you are today. Survey your life and make sure life is not so cluttered with stuff that God is being lost in the mix.

Make God the center of your life. And, the result will be a much simpler life.

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Do you have a simpler life and if so how did you get it?

Who is Jim Foreman?  He is a lover of God, husband of a godly woman, father of 2 great kids, a friend, a pastor, and many other things. He enjoys sports, reading, and life in general.  You can read his blog On The Brink Of Something Large .